Sunday, October 19, 2014

picking widlflowers

The weather  has been so beautiful here this week we've been spending what time we can spare outdoors and doing an awful lot of our favorite activity, picking wildflowers.

Our friend Isa B stopped by to prep for a (super amazing) photo shoot we had in the works and hung out with us in the big puffy bushes of white and purple asters and butterfly plants. It's lovely to hang out with photographers, because later on, she sent me these lovely photos. Thanks, Isa B!






Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Apprentice

As part of Arthur's homeschool, he assists me with setting up backdrops and design so that he can learn those skills himself. I would not ask him to do this if he wasn't interested in setting up film sets and other artistic pursuits, but he enjoys it. I believe apprenticing is an important aspect of homeschooling. It teaches him to respect work and the fact that his mom works, it teaches him a skill, and it helps him to have a sense of accomplishment. Among the many other benefits, it also allows me to continue working without hiring a babysitter.

Now, he has his moments where he acts...well, like a six-and-a-half-year-old. But generally, hanging out with adults has taught him a certain level of respect, and most people are pretty understanding and think he is super cool.

Such was the case when I took Arthur with me to scout Fellowship Congregational Church this week for our good friends' Jason and Zac's wedding. He helped me find empty space and decide if we should fill it, and helped me come up with ideas for design.

And I can't emphasize enough what a beautiful church it is! Check out this bomb stained glass/gratuitous pics of my kid.



Sunset after a storn


Saturday, October 11, 2014

Whimsy Hollow Tea Party with Fearless Photography

One can never have too many whimsical tea parties. Kristen Mallett from Fearless Photography came out to visit and took these amaze pics with her little model Jordan. Arthur and Lucy stood in because I am their mother and they have to do something to earn their keep around here. Session styled by This Love (formerly Driftwood Vintage Rentals).







The "house"--before (exterior)




How do you think we should paint it? I want to give it a vintage vibe, like the trailers in the Long, Long, Trailer trailer parks. In fact, I want it to have a yard like the yards of those little trailers! Something like this.


Friday, October 10, 2014

Arthur as a skeleton

Another gem from Justin's camera. When you have ten beautiful acres to play on, dressing up in costumes and dancing around the wildflowers is about as good as it gets.

Thursday, October 9, 2014

Princess Lucy

For all the photo sessions we host out here, it occurred to Justin that perhaps he should take a class at the college. I am forever amazed at the value of a little training. I think I will take a class when I get a chance.

I am in love with this photo of Lucy he took in black and white film. This was taken at the gate of Whimsy Hollow and features a backdrop I created with gold and silver hand-cut mylar ribbon.



Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Amazing Lucy shots from Jealous Melon Photography

Check out these super gorgeous pics of Lucy on one of our old fire engines! They were shot a few weeks back by the incredibly gifted Bobbie Brewer-Moore of Jealous Melon Photography. She totally surprised me with these.

We love Bobbie's work! Follow the link and check out more of her talent.






little girl hair: flipped fairy crown

Lucy is a pretty intense little girl with some extremely intense hair. It's curly, so it can end up a bit dreaded rather quickly, and not in the good way.

The poor girl spent her first two years mostly bald, so all this thick, chaotic hair has been an adjustment. Thankfully, I spent lots of time at summer camp as a girl, from Campfire and Girl Scouts to later working as a camp counselor and eventually going on missions trips. And if there is one thing bored girls at camp do, it's braid each other's hair.

Drawing on that skill set, I've become pretty clever at styling Lucy's River Song-esque locks. This is one of my favorites, and for lack of a more creative name, I'm calling it the Flipped Fairy Crown, since it is essentially a fairy crown or Heidi crown drawn across the back of he hair instead of the top.


To create this do, you must have a basic French braiding ability. There are tons of tutorials all over the web, and it is far less difficult to learn than it looks. French braiding is a basic step for many hairstyles, so it's definitely worth taking the time to learn.

Creating a flipped fairy crown for Lucy was fairly simple because her hair's natural curls hold the shape of the braid naturally. If my daughter's hair was a straighter or thinner texture, I would probably snag a few bobby pins and some kid-friendly mousse to give her some texture. However, that is not the case.

Step one: Part the hair in the middle-ish (I do this imperfectly and loosely to add to her fairy tale feel, but to get a preppier look, you could go for a very straight part).

Step two: Begin with a french braid at the top, front right side of her head, pulling in pieces as you go down the scalp. You could do this in a regular French braid, as seen here, or you can use a Dutch braid, which flips the braid kind of inside out so that the braid sits on top. I tend to find the French braid a bit more romantic, but I've recently come to appreciate some of the elaborate Dutch braids circulating around the runways these days.

Keep going, directing the braid toward the nape of the neck. If you are having trouble with a specific section or thin piece that just will not for the life of you stay in the dang flippin' braid, you can cheat and just do a little twist for a section and then get back to your braid as soon as you feel comfortable with it.



                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               
Notice it's pretty much how you would start off making braided pigtails.

Step three: Braid across the nape of the neck to the left side, continuing to pull in hair a piece at a time, French braid style. Notice with Lucy's because her curls held her hair in, I pulled the pieces back out a bit gently to give them a looser, dreamier quality.




Step four: When you make it across to the left side, begin braiding back up. The braid will begin to thicken here, but that's okay. It will look cute, especially since little girl hairstyles can carry a whimsical, fun quality and still be super hip. Notice Lucy's uneven part below...it looks so cute!





Step five: Bring the braid up the left side of the scalp fairly high and find a cute place to pin it. I used two bows, one at the highest point of the braid, and one a bit lower to balance it out so the bows looked darling and kawaii rather than simply stuck in the spot where the braid needs pinned. I let the loose hair a the end kind of splay wildly from the blue bow. If her hair was straighter, I might tuck it in with a bobby pin or spiral curl it. See how cute it is!






                                                                                                                                                                    There you go! A sweet and simple style for a preschool age girl's hair, perfectly suited for traipsing around the Hollow collecting wildflowers and chasing bunnies and butterflies.

Girl Power

Random shots of Lu and Elana, the daughter of bestie and partner in This Love (formerly Driftwood Vintage) Jillian, taken during an open house here on the farm.






Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Journey to a tiny house

The first night I came to stay at the family estate was the day I moved there. I had no idea that was to be the case at the time. We had been working on building a relationship with my estranged parents after a spectacular battle over custody of my late brother's son. When my mom's battle with autosomal dominant polycystic kidney disease began to enter the final stages, I reached out and asked my parents to join us in sharing a suite at my mom's favorite place, Walt Disney World in Florida. The trip had taken us a long way in restoring our relationship, so a month later when two days before Thanksgiving my dad told me his mother (my Grandma Ruth) had died the same day my mom went on hospice, I drove directly from a friend's house to help take care of her. I did not have any clothing or personal belongings with me, but that evening would come to mark the day I essentially moved our of our downtown home.

For a few weeks, I alternated with my dad sleeping next to my mom and sleeping on the sofa. Justin and the kids began staying on makeshift beds at first on the weekend and before long through the week as well.

The situation was pretty tense for a while. My hip problems were so bad I tried sleeping on a hospital bed and all manner of solutions. Eventually, we settled into me sleeping on the sofa and my family fully moved into a dormitory-style situation in the large back room of the house. For a while, we slept in my dad's RV, but it was a nice new RV he purchased for travel, not something to live in. The situation was bleak.

It actually rather sucked.

We looked at building a home on the land last year, a big place with a bedroom for each child, custom built. Unfortunately, it is very hard to build a second home on agricultural land, especially if you are self-employed. After months of hoping, we finally threw in the towel.

We had talked for a while about the possibility of building a small cabin or tiny house out here, but we were struggling to find something we felt comfortable committing to. Then a couple of months back, my dad found me a fifth wheel to use for meeting clients for my vintage rental company. We purchased it for $250 and towed it back to the family estate (now dubbed Whimsy Hollow).

I knew I wanted to gut it and fix it up, but I did not know where to begin. For a while, we just sort of sat on it. One day as I began to evaluate what I wanted to do with it, I realized that there was nothing in this world I would love more than to sleep next to my husband, and the loft in that fifth wheel was looking like a sound option. The past year had been trying, but it had taught us what we could live without, had acclimated us to a level of minimalism and simplicity that anything would be an improvement.

I did not even have to tell Justin...he was already on the same page with me. This was one of those rare cases where we both were on it fast. Before I could start ripping out the interior, he already had. Within two days, we had made it livable enough to fix  up while we live in it. 

We plan to add on to it and we are telling the children we would like to think of it as a "cabin." We may not be in a 2400 square foot house at the moment, but so far, the simple joys of being close together in our own space have been profound. Stay tuned for before pics!